It is always nice when people want to met you and play... however, it has to be a 2 way thing, I actually have to want to play with a guy or there is no point in doing it. This is all about emotions - what does it for me, and indeed you. Having said that I don't have a type as such nor an age range - it is about you as a person.
Having said that, there are a few basic guidelines that definitely don't work for me, so if you fall into one of these then I am sorry but it just isn't going to work for me:
- Smokers - Sorry, gave up years ago and can't stand it now.
- Full Facial Hair (except short neatly trimmed).
- CD/TV/TS - there is nothing about anything female that remotely interests me.
- Underage - Sorry lads - you really do have to wait. I'm not breaking the law for anyone.
- Blind dates - Sorry, no pics no meet simple as that. I prefer to see a normal picture of you too and at my age I know what a cock looks like.
- Limits - I am not into WS, FF, Fucking, too many piercings, dirt
So you've made it past that lot then? Good... on we go:
Firstly I have to say I am in Essex in England. I can travel, but not to the otherside of the planet and not tomorrow!!! ;-) It takes a lot of time to set up meets and I only meet a few people a month (sometimes only one a month or not at all during the hotest times!!). If I say we'll meet then we will - even if it takes years... However, regular chat helps convince me to meet you.
Secondly, I am into uniforms (especially if they are yours ;-) ), leather, Rubber, sportswear, skinheads, workwear overalls and far too many things (LOL) - I do wank guys off, cbt, tt, some roleplay, Master/Dog, Master/slave and a few other things.
Finally, I should say that I can accomodate here, but you should be aware that other family members live with me (in my house) so I am limited to just one room. I am open with them and they know what I do... so it's not a problem to them - I hope it isn't a problem to you!
What and Why?
I do this in the hope we both enjoy ourselves and, hopefully, you will enjoy the meeting. However, I don't want sex. I like to start with clothed bondage - uniforms and sportswear especially. See the Gallery for some idea of how I tie people and what I like them to wear. I prefer to use rope, chain, tape etc. might use toys if you are happy to.
All limits are agreed in advance and I have a safety system to stop any scene for any reason (and it can be used to increase it as well if you so wish). Equally you might start a meet not wanting something - a hood for example, but as the meet progresses you might what to change your mind - that's fine too. With something like a hood I might suggest you put it on yourself first to see what it's like. Basically, I'll help you have fun and, if you want, explore your limits.
How to Meet.
So this is how we meet - you email me, we talk for a while, then we arrange to meet and play, simple. However, meets take time to fit in, I'm not sitting here waiting for your email! Life goes on and I like time to myself as well! When talking I'm going to want to get an idea of what you expect and want to try, also what you've tried before and whether you like it or not. Also how long do you think you can take being bound for? If I know what you'd like I can try to ensure we all enjoy the experience!
On the day, if either of us decide against playing we walk away! No pressure. If we arrange to meet somewhere, please don't just not turn up - turn up (or ring/text) and say you've changed your mind - I prefer that to no shows!!
While playing, safety is a concern and the rules will be explained to you before we start.
Play Time
It is (obviously) important that everyone involved enjoys themselves - otherwise why bother? A safety code will be used and explained at the outset, so that you know you can end any situtation or make changes. The first bondage is likely to be fairly simple, just so that we get use to each other and so we know where we can go to next. Don't hold back on your fantasy's, that's what this is all about afterall - and I'm not a mind reader! Please bear in mind the list of things I am not into.
HOW TO GET A FAVOURABLE REPLY... Send me a normal pic of you (I assume you have a head on your shoulders - gags and blindfolds can be a problem otherwise - so I'd like to see it!!). Pics of parts of you naked that wouldn't be on a normal beach will be ignored and binned - not interested and it means you've not read the site. Equally I don't want your measurements - none of them!!
Does This Sound Scary?
Some people will have read this and though "Hell, I'd love to but it's way beyond what I do" others might think "thats all a bit lame" well it is hard to pitch this for everyone - it is the basics. I thoroughly enjoy playing with new people and experienced people alike. For new people I understand the nerves and will help all I can, the scene will be slow and easy and go at your pace. For the experienced more intense scenes can be worked out. The key is to talk to me and let me know so I can have some idea of how it would best work for you.
This page was last updated 30 April 2007